I LOVE YOU

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 "I have to tell you something but I want to look into your eyes." Martin got up from the couch and walked to the light so he could turn it on.  As my eyes adjusted to the brightness Martin walked back to the couch, kneeled beside me, smiled, and said "I LOVE YOU."  I looked at him and said "I LOVE YOU TOO."  Seven years ago that was our first I LOVE YOU, I still remember it like it was yesterday.  I remember how natural it was to tell him that I loved him.  I remember how happy I was as we embraced and kissed.   I remember his amazing smile and the sparkle in his eyes.  I remember how perfect and memorable he made that incredibly special moment.  October 14th will always be special to me and our love story.  I will never stop loving him no matter where life takes me. Martin and our love will have a place in my heart for the rest of my life.  I am so grateful for the time I had with him, and I am even more grateful that the last time I FaceTimed with him in the hospital I told him I loved him and that I would do everything all over again.  Covid took him away from me, but nothing will ever take away the love I have for him.  




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